"My parents do not understand me" - you can often hear from a teenager, but adults this surge often smile and shook his head - think that there is not understood, the young - green. And for good reason.
In a child's life there comes a time when it is gradually moving from a very childish condition in adults. Play hormones appear physical signs of growing up, for what is moral maturation, but that childhood - here it is, still was, how so?
The child understands that attitude is changing, it appears these duties. Of course, the first classes and kindergarten immediately to mind as the best time, and parents become enemies - they are so much demand, and, in general, why should I have them?
Breaking down stereotypes, the child becomes sensitive and observant. Probably the first time he drew attention to problems in the family, he develops his own opinion and assessment of it. Parents suddenly cease to be the main authorities, and are replaced by others.
Probably sounds corny, but most of all a child during adolescence need support and trust. Listen to any judgment and assessment of the child and not condemn him, pushing away from you - the real talent of the parent.
Trust can be expressed in the fact that parents no longer control his life indefinitely - eaten if he got in the school with whom walks. Of course, the control is necessary, but it was a time when it should be carefully not touching the fragile new personality.
The family every day problems are solved, large and small, are meeting all domestic matters. If you bring to the discussion of the child, to hear and try to understand his point of view, it certainly feels important and necessary, it is much to bring it closer to the parents.
Listen and do not mind cautiously adjusting to demand, but explaining why or why, trust and love is infinite - probably the easiest recipe understanding of children and parents.