You need to understand from the very first day that your daughter - not your continued and independent person. Do not expect from her that in her life she should realize what you do not have time or have failed you. Let it not be like you and do not like you - have their habits, affections, passions.
But you must understand, that from the first days you for it - an example to follow. His first lessons of femininity she takes it from you. You have to teach her everything - from skills hygiene and self-care, the ability to take care of others. Try to plant them she was not a dictate, but as tips and tricks. Razyasnyayte patiently and answer questions daughter, help her in her development, consider her personal predispositions.
Do not be very picky to it, does not inspire her to unnecessary complex about her looks or intelligence. Always say that any difficulty or failure can be overcome, that there is indeed a lack of any appearance can be corrected. Tell her that you'll always love it for what it is, it inspires confidence in their own strength. Daughter needs to know that your advice and support she can count always.
The main cause of misunderstanding and bad relations between mother and daughter is a difference in the experience. Of course, you do not want your little girl stuffed unnecessary bumps, but categorically interfere in her private life should never be. Forbid yourself to watch it - read her personal diaries, check e-mail or social networking page, the more publicly cite them. Such actions will only lead to the fact that the child will be closed and will start to lie.
Try to be the daughter of the supervisory authority is not vigilant and strict but fair advisor and friend, then you will not need to watch it. Try to pay more attention to the girl and love a child to a couple of decades, you could see his daughter beautiful, confident, kind and happy woman.