The most cruel way to make love, even when a family has children - set strict rules. Once the child is a little older, limit their own space, locking the bedroom at night. If the unexpected happened and the child will come running to seek support, you always have time to interrupt the love of the game and open the door for him. However, this may adversely affect the nervous system of the baby at the early stage of its formation.
Softer option will suit you if you are able to deal with several things at the same time. It does not require much effort. Purchase a special device that allows you to watch what is going on in the nursery. If baby wakes up at night and run to you, you will see it in advance and have time to take action. Similarly, during the day, getting kids into classes or play, use the time as they draw or play with enthusiasm, and give each other pleasure. The main thing - do not get carried away and not to lose sight of when the children leave their room. Therefore it is better to buy a device that not only allows you to see what is happening there, but also transmits sounds.
Child care leads to the fact that both spouses are often simply exhausted, and there remains no desire to give sexual pleasures. In fact, is not required to give all of himself to children. And there is one simple reason: no child will grow happy if next to him will be eternally tired and crocked parents, exhausted, and - as a consequence - irritated and angry. That is why it is so important to find opportunities for recreation, and in particular - for lovemaking.
Find friends with children and arrange a few days ago, in which you could have a few hours to send him their offspring. Just you, for its part, can provide such service to this pair. In addition, not necessarily to hire a permanent nanny, if you aspire to educate their own children. However, it is your desire does not suffer if you use the services of Mary Poppins coming Saturday or Sunday morning: two hours, she will walk with children, you wonderful rest and gain strength for full communion with the kids.