Children grow, build their lives and tend to leave home. It would seem that you can safely breathe, to enjoy life, to devote it to each other. But with this and all the problems begin. The unifying role of mom and dad made. Begins checking the strength of family relationships. Many couples do not withstand examination, especially if the couple about the same age, and crossed the 45-year mark.
The man in this age of ever wants to prove to himself and others that he is still attractive and may appeal to young girls. As a rule, he has achieved great success in his career, financially secure and can not afford to let a lot. The result was not long in coming. An affair with a young lover literally "blow your socks off." Proverb gave this phenomenon a precise explanation: "A gray beard - a lusty".
But not young mistress of your husband has caused that your union has cracked. This prompted him your relationship discord. In most cases, long-term family life is not conducive to serious work on the relationship. It seems that what if all established? This inevitably leads to a crisis. Even after years 20-30-40 wife must like her husband, arouse his interest. To do this, take care of yourself, be well-groomed, not to relax, keep your figure, do not devote all her husband's secrets. In a woman should be a mystery, if it does not, the man loses interest.
Not wanting to save marriage, just let the situation. If you are going to fight to the end, to speak frankly with her husband. Not to speak of reproaches, do not try to act as judge and a conviction. A wise wife will always find a way to fix the situation. Look for common ground, work on the relationship, if both of you are ready for it. And always remember - gullible husbands change lovers like gloves, but never dare to leave the family. Reliable and loyal wife go literally forever in what were, taking only a toothbrush and shaving machine. Therefore, you should immediately correct the situation before it is too late.