Husband
His wife woman knows quite well. She is well aware of its shortcomings and remembers its merits. And, of course, realizes that connects them very much. But this does not mean that it must constantly be with him. A new stage in her life, new desires and needs. Perhaps it is time to leave?
Lover
Of course, he is the most wonderful, the most attentive and best. He is always happy to see her, constantly heard from him compliments to him very interesting. Lover gives her the opportunity to feel beautiful and desirable woman. His words easy to lose your head.
Or maybe leave it as it is?
Lover can agree to this proposal, but the husband - is unlikely. As soon as the deceived husband finds out about his wife's entertainment, he will certainly be offended and upset, because it is directly hitting his vanity. This betrayal is not every man is ready to forgive.
In addition, the woman herself tired constantly be between two fires. After all, every man should be given a sufficient amount of attention and warmth. She may simply not enough mental strength to do so.
Whom do you choose?
This woman must answer the question yourself. Initially, you need to figure out who it is more expensive - a husband or lover. One such home and home, and the other - an interesting and attractive.
Before you make your choice, you need to remember, and how to develop a relationship with her husband before marriage. Probably, and the flowers were, and compliments, and entertainment. But after a certain time, all is lost. And where is the guarantee that her lover will be different?
In addition, the husband already has some advantage over her lover - he does not hide his negative qualities. But the lover tries to show itself only with the good side.
And if she still decided to leave her husband, before you talk to him you must discuss this point with her lover. It may be so, that it will be totally against this turn of events. In any case, before terminating a relationship with one of the men, it is important to consider all the nuances, or women at risk of being left with nothing.