The first reason - nostalgia. After some time after leaving the woman calms down, poor forgotten, but come to mind only the good memories.
Nostalgia for the time when all was well, begins to act like a magnet, attracting a bored woman to continue to partner.
In this period of disgusting behavior of the former spouse, the reasons due to which you broke up, start, as if erased from memory and did not seem so scary.
Feeling attracted to her ex-husband becomes stronger if at the moment the woman has no new admirer, and you need the warmth and affection.
The second reason - good sex. Absolutely normal human reaction - to return to what is familiar. And if you have been married for a long time, then naturally yours, although the former spouse has not only become over the years a native you man, but also knows all the features of your body and preferences in sex - he did not need to explain it all knows himself. It can not be shy, and frustration in sex will not be.
The third reason - jealousy. Yes, it is, plain, elementary jealousy. If a woman discovers that her ex-husband does not spend all day in anguish, lost in her face the love of his life, and actively dating other women.
And behold, a woman makes an appointment ex-husband, coming up with some slight excuse, easy conversation turns to flirt, and ends up in bed. But, after a night spent together, a man and a woman goes bitterly realizes that she is not only for him, but one of many.
Sexual relationship with her ex-husband or lover, in principle, not so bad, but only on one condition - if a woman can control their emotions, and these relations do not hurt her emotionally stronger than the gap.
To protect yourself from disappointment and emotional trauma think you really so necessary a sexual relationship with her ex-husband? In this situation, psychologists advise frankly answer the few questions.
1. Do I have to inflict pain sexual relationship with a former lover?
2. I repeat past mistakes, renewing the relationship?
3. My needs are only physical in nature?
4. How to change my life, if I continue to meet with my ex-husband?
5. Do I want to return with sex past relationships?
Analyze your answers - and consider whether to renew the relationship with your ex-husband. After you have left, and the reasons for the break were very significant. Let the past stay in the past. Hope for the best, and build their lives anew.