The bride and groom: how not to give up before the wedding

 Restlessness, anxiety or even depression before the wedding - the norm rather than the exception. Unpleasant emotions are often associated with fear. The bride and groom are starting to doubt whether they do, whether ready for such a serious step, whether to live together and to solve everyday issues to be seen whether to make each other happy. The situation is complicated, if in their environment, there are people who have experienced a failed marriage. Such people may antagonize the wedding, we see that "good cause not be called marriage" and so on. Try to reach an understanding, calm yourself and relax the partner. Throw away the dark thoughts and do not listen to other people's stories pessimistic.

Often becomes a serious test by the organization of the wedding. Ideally, it should be engaged and groom and the bride. Unfortunately, some women prefer to take these things for yourself, not considering it necessary to consult with her lover. This can greatly offend the groom. In addition, it is likely that it will not accept a wedding organized by the bride. Council, communicate, work together to solve issues. Especially useful to entrust man such things as, for example, the choice of vehicles.

However, remember that it is not necessary to talk about the wedding all the time. It is better to assign the specific days when you organize the event, and the rest of the time try to take a break from the hassle. Firstly, because you can look at the situation with fresh eyes, to see all the inaccuracies and quietly resolve the issues. Second, the preparation for the wedding will not be as tedious and cause less controversy.

The most difficult issue that causes the most fights and quarrels before the wedding - is the question of who should be invited and who is not. The problem lies in the fact that the budget is limited and can only take a certain number of guests, and that the bride and groom are sometimes not too fond of relatives and friends of each other. If your partner is going to invite his friend, whom you hate, remember that the wedding - not only your holiday, and the groom has the full right to take part in its organization. Think also about the fact that such an act future husband gives you the opportunity to invite a friend or relative who can not tolerate it. But do not do anything out of spite, so as not to spoil the holiday. Just be patient and loving and looking for compromises.