How to get married after 35

How to get married after 35
 It has long passed the time when unmarried girls twenties called "old maids." Now marriages much later: it is first necessary to have time to get an education, then - to pursue a career, and a suitable candidate for marriage somehow does not come across ... And now, thirty-five, the biological clock is not standing still, and comes the realization that it is necessary or say goodbye to the dream of a family and kiddies, or quickly establish personal life. But how to do it?

The first thing you need - is to set a goal. This 15 years can dream about the sacrament of marriage, in thinking through the details of a white dress, the details of the wedding ceremony and not thinking about the life that comes after the wedding celebration. Forget about the romance of the wedding, focus on what you want from family life - caring husband, cozy house, children ... This is your goal. Go for it.

Take a sheet of paper and write down on him the reasons why you're not married. Sat for days on the job? None of the men did not meet your needs? Consider yourself a "gray mouse", unworthy of man's attention? All the free time to spend at home and do not have opportunities to meet with anyone? Through the items in the resulting list and think about how you can change this situation, thus forming a list of your immediate tasks.

Think about what kind of man you want. Stop dreaming about the prince and mad love at first sight. Now you do not need a whirlwind romance - you need to get married. Ideally - for a normal person, "your circle" - similar in age, social status, level of education. It was such marriages are the most robust and dreams of a handsome prince on the white "Mercedes" better pass by inheritance young damsels, let amuse themselves fantasies until the time is.

Remember that you are not "old maid", dreaming about though any signs of male attention. You - a woman in the prime of his mature beauty, the expected sign of man's attention and take them for granted. It does not hide the fact that they would like to establish privacy and are interested in getting acquainted with suitable candidates. It's not a shame and disgrace - but it increases the chances that friends or acquaintances will acquaint you with the right people, "its terms." And friends of friends - the most promising future of the circle to find a life partner.

More likely to attend parties, go to visit (not embarrassed that you single), attend conferences, trainings, communicate with colleagues. Not in bars, in the end, to get acquainted with the appropriate people for marriage. And if you have signs of attention, do not rush to "sew" the man, even if at first glance it seemed to you "is not so." Maybe after you become more familiar to change his point of view. At the same time, do not let yourself get carried away by men, obviously not suitable for marriage. Your goal - not a whirlwind romance, and family.

Enjoy life. Rejoice cup of coffee, the smell of freshly cut grass, new earrings and other small things. "Catch" the feeling of happiness - and every day there is a new reason for joy. And be internally ready to share this joy with your life partner. And then he is sure to appear in your life.

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