Calmest man can lose all his composure, if you will constantly allude to him that it is time to legitimize your relationship. So do not rush things. Get accustomed to the behavior of your men to find out whether or not your relationship have a future.
The man is constantly trying to provoke you to the scandal, knowing how you respond to his words and antics? This means that perhaps he had not grown up in moral terms, and is trying to draw attention to themselves. Or does not consider your relationship as something serious, and wants you to relax. Temporarily or permanently. In the first case, do not take on the role of a caring and patient moms, otherwise he will never feel like a real man. In the second - try really little break from each other. Maybe during this time the man finally mature solution to tie their fate with you? Or you parted amicably.
If a man withdraws into himself when your cautious attempts to dream about your future together, it does not mean that he is strongly opposed to marry you. Most likely, he just used to not give out their plans for the time being, so as not to frighten away the good luck. Or mentally estimates at this point, your prospects to become a good wife for him. Try to leave at the time of dreams for the future and pay maximum attention to the man with all the love and sincerity, which is only capable of. If a man really thinks about marriage with you, your efforts will not be wasted.
You can meet on the way and a staunch opponent of matrimonial relations. Such men usually, on the contrary, like to talk about marriage, but only in a mocking way. You need to understand what caused such a joyless, in general, the relationship. Unsuccessful family life parents or friends? Some serious persuasion? Or simply it is self-sufficient so that you need something close only "for show"? If it is based only on a strange bitter experience instilled in him confidence. If he professes a doctrine, to learn at least the basics of this strange religion, to understand how to proceed. If you need it only as a companion - leave it forever. Perhaps, in his old age he marries someone, but only in order to brighten the old age.