You can not even imagine that in such cases going on in his mind - uncertainty and fear, because he does not see a particular purpose of this conversation. And you at this moment and not think about anything serious, you just want to talk with your loved ones! After all, when you propose to girlfriend talk, you do not have in mind a specific topic. You pleasant conversation process itself, even without result.
Give him a lengthy introductory text: "Honey, we need to talk about gifts to relatives on New Year's Eve, let's discuss the amount that we can spend! "" My bunny, maybe it's time for us to live together? We will then be able to pay less for an apartment, talk about it? ". The man in this case is already about the development of the conversation, he has his own opinion on this matter, the specific words and a plan in my head. It feels comfortable and confident starting a conversation with you.
Have you noticed for yourself, you do not like straight talk? Women often talk hints, veiled phrases, seeking the man, that he guessed the purpose of your words. He, if it can not quickly decipher the meaning, irritated and even gets angry. Do not describe the horrors of artistic cold winter, do not tell about the general climate cooling, and just let that stop your down jacket warm coat and would you could not be more helpful.
Man receives information and begins to "think" it silently to issue its decision in the end. The woman immediately puts his impression about the news of her splash emotions and illogical conclusions (in his view illogical, but for you they are the most natural!). Your guy does not understand a bit of it all, and he was not aware as possible in the process of constant torrent to give a reasonable result of the conversation. He is nervous and think that you've already forgotten the question, trying to get you back on track again and again, but in vain.
Warn about the feminine features of a man, tell me what you can safely talk all sorts of nonsense and think about solving the problem. And do not rush him when he will think for a long time - it must be strong floor.
Emotions for men is not so easy to express, as a woman. So sometimes you resent him for what he does not want to talk about their feelings. Try switching it with intelligence on sensuality - take by the hand, hug, kiss tenderly. The man's body is directly related to his emotions and feelings, and talk about them it will be easier if you caress it.
And, perhaps most important when dealing with the opposite sex - listen to him without interrupting! A man can not express his thoughts for a long time without stopping to ponder. At this point, the woman decides that he said everything, and she begins to speak. He just gets mad with vexation that he was not listening. Learn to listen to the men, and they would be happy to talk with you.