Most importantly - his attitude towards the family as a whole. Notice how a man behaves with their parents, relatives and friends. Everything that concerns the mention of the family, even if they are pronounced surface and passing, should not elude your attention.
You can learn a lot without asking direct questions, but connecting your powers of observation. For instance, if a man utters the phrase: "I'm going to a friend for a wedding, they marry a girl he met many years," - it says that he appreciates the events and treats them with respect. But if you hear a "friend of my ringed! Do not play more football on the weekends! "- It makes sense to think about what attitude to marriage and family got your man.
Very often, a woman does not know about his chosen more than what he tells her on dates. If the couple does not live together, it is sometimes quite difficult to sort out what kind of people around you. A very important point - the ratio of men to money. Yeah, maybe you feel that mercantile interests - not the approach to the choice of future husband, but it is not. Just think, you are going to connect his life, his own well-being and prosperity to this man. It will help you to raise children, to support the family budget and all the rest, so to find out how a man willing to share their money, it makes sense ahead of time. Too greedy men, of course, also married, but it is important to have your views on the budget match, but in this case you will be able to find common ground in family life.
There are men who fundamentally do not want to have children. They are carefully protected, constantly emphasize that children - it cares and extra headache, and obviously not going to have their own in the foreseeable future. If your relationship is pretty close, try to find out whether a man quite categorical in this regard. It sometimes happens that a woman decides to pregnancy, thinking to keep a man in this way, and gets quite the opposite result. Think you really want to raise a child alone, or are ready to go for this man to have an abortion?
Of course, the man must be for you something of a lightning rod. Weak woman can run on four papers, raise children, and trying to be a woman. But much calmer when a man is a support for his wife may have her support and are always ready to help. If you feel that a man who next to you, just like that, and your heart says that the best candidate for the role of husband and can not come up, then you have found the single, hold it with both hands and never let go. And if you're still in doubt, it is better to wait. Time will put everything in its place, you can be sure of that.