Was there an orgasm?

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 It is believed that the sex of men and women differently enjoy. Many men really do not understand how it could be that the woman does not experience orgasm and gets thus the joy of intimacy. Women are often really can not have an orgasm, but the sex of that for them does not lose its appeal. So what is the basis of pleasure in bed?

Women think that orgasm - this is not what may well do having sex, well, at least very many such luxury seems to be very rare. At that time, as the light is on female orgasm can continuously and even several times. How does this happen? The nature of female orgasm harder than men and consists of several aspects: physiological and psychological. To experience the real powerful sensual orgasm, a woman requires a certain intimacy with a partner, it should feel that it is good and comfortable. That is why in order to achieve female orgasm is so important long prelude, enabling both partners to warm up, and a woman awaken her sensuality. Interestingly in orgasm what words to describe it is almost impossible. Man experiences incomparable to anything fun and bliss, but to understand these feelings can only be experienced them myself.

Or maybe you're having an orgasm, but just do not know? Scientific studies have confirmed the fact that many women are waiting for a sexual relationship of some unearthly satisfaction akin to that shown in porn movies. But in practice, orgasm, not even thinking about it that way and it happens. They think that they will never reach the highest point of pleasure, even though it is not so. Many women mistake lies in the fact that instead rely on their own feelings, they take as a basis for the widely accepted model. If laid during orgasm loud moan and squirm with pleasure, then all other sensations - this is not an orgasm. It is not true! If you are good with your partner, you feel pleasure and satisfaction from sex, so you have everything in order. Orgasm for every woman is a very individual thing.

Does it make sense to pretend? This question can not be answered unequivocally. Women do not reach orgasm, often pretend to give pleasure to your partner, because a man is disappointed, if not able to deliver your favorite pleasure. However, this is a double edged sword. Simulating an orgasm, you risk losing your feedback with your partner, because if he does not understand that you do not get what you want now and will not try to change something. So be careful in this matter, if it is absolutely afraid to offend a man, tell him that you were very good (after all, so it really was). Believe me, the desire to bring you to the peak of pleasure longed for in a man very much, he is sure to be looking for ways to achieve this, we should not disturb him in this.

And most importantly - do not dwell on orgasm. After all, thinking only of his own satisfaction, you forget about your partner and your loved pleasure sometimes much nicer than most get it. In addition, if your man will be very good, it will have the effect of excitation and liberation and for you, and who knows, maybe there is already close to its climax.

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