As part with the man you love

 Parting with the man you love - it's a heavy blow, but it is, nevertheless, there is never a surprise. Usually long before rupture occurs cooling in relations. Man becomes indifferent, behaves more crudely, rarely or later comes, referring to the eternal employment. Such signs may be many, and they are usually a woman feels good. If you have good reason to suspect that you are about to throw, you can accept the inevitable and expected, but you can gather the courage to put an end to the relationship first.

The second option is psychologically even better because you maintain self-esteem and do not feel abandoned. In this case, be prepared for the fact that the man, on the contrary, will begin to look for some way to build a relationship with you again. After all, he did not want to feel like a loser. And it all depends on you, either you take it gusts or did not back down from the decision to leave. But remember that if a man feels really burned out, and he does not love you as before, it is unlikely that you will find him a happy future.

Try to understand what happened. Why do you throw? The main reasons are usually not a lot - your man to love another, you do not come to him, he is not ready and is afraid of a serious relationship, etc. You will not get easier when you can see why. But thinking a little dulled your emotions will not let you fall into a deep pit of despair and provide a starting point for action. If you no longer love, try to understand and forgive. If there is something wrong with you, you need to take urgent measures to be faced with a similar situation in the future. Well, if the guy is afraid of responsibility, your parting - the best way out for you such partner is hardly needed.

Until now, you think that your man is perfect in every way? Now is the time to critically reconsider. As much as possible ponder the disadvantages of your chosen one. You can take a piece of paper and write on it all its pros and cons. Analyze written and realize that you are about its merits too wrong.

Part can be different, but it is better not to leave what some understatement. The best option - to find out the relationship and clearly understand for themselves that this is the end. Not enough spirit to meet and say what you think of it? Write and send it by e-mail a detailed letter. We should not be rude and stoop to insults. Just calmly and with dignity, let us know what their claims, thank for the bright moments that you have experienced together, and explain that you want to end the relationship.

If you decide to meet and talk face to face, choose a time when you are focused and calm. Tell us about your feelings and experiences about the negative aspects of your life together with him and do not try to bring the conversation to the nostalgic memories of how you were good together. In no case do not tear and raised his voice, even if a man come out of balance and utter you too much. But in this case all the cards in your hands, because you keep your dignity and pride.

Note that the length of time during which you allow yourself to grieve and despair, and once this period comes to an end, take control of the senses in their hands. Avoid meetings with former favorite. Try to get rid of all the gifts, photos and things that will remind you of the past.

Do not turn in on themselves. Communicate more with other people. Find yourself some interesting activities - sports, crafts, movies and so on. If possible, go on a journey that you used to like to do. Enjoy the beauty of nature, a masterpiece of human hands, and all the riches of the world.

Remember that time heals even the most severe wounds, and you have met the man that you really will come, and with whom you will be happy.