Even experienced psychologists can not say the daughter returns to her mother or not. However, a woman can try and make concessions stubborn teenager. It all depends on what the relationship was between parents and children during childhood, adolescence.
In that case, if you always chose the authoritarian style of behavior with your child in the future will be very difficult to return the daughter. The fact that adolescents perceive such behavior as a threat to their freedom and independence. Children want to be independent.
The situation may worsen remarried mother. In most cases, teenagers start to hate her stepfather, did not even get to know this person. So have patience. Most likely, the daughter of his father considered the unfortunate victim and determined to become his defense.
In no case do not start to customize your child against her own father. No matter what the cause of divorce for his daughter dad will always be family man. Let them know my baby, that at any moment ready to support it, give some useful tips, etc.
If you do not want to lose my daughter, be prepared to make concessions, to revise their beliefs and stereotypes. Try to establish a relationship with her ex-husband. Your daughter needs to see in you a friend, not a sworn enemy of his own happiness. The ideal option would be a frank conversation with your child. Try to find out what is the reason for this behavior.
Do not take care of his daughter as a betrayal. For teenagers it is time to be treated as an adult independent people who are entitled to their own opinion. Only when you start to respect her choice and decision, daughter dares to talk. As a result, you get to achieve harmony in the relationship with their child, themselves and the world around them.