The reasons for the vagaries of
Caprice (fr. - Fad fad) - the desire of the child, especially primary school and pre-school age, to achieve something impossible at the moment, inaccessible, or forbidden. Usually whims cause, they are accompanied by stamping, screaming, crying, scattering caught near objects.
Whims vary, depending on the age of the child. It is worth noting that a baby's tantrums, his loud cry have no relation to the vagaries of. So baby says that he wants to eat or drink that hurt him or he was tired, and so on. d. From one year to five years of age children are experiencing crises which entail pronounced emotional reactions. During this period, the child needs and sensitivities of special treatment. But if parents raise him properly, children's tantrums and vagaries sometimes become habitual behavior. Indeed, in the first years of life, children begin to understand themselves as a person and to actively explore the world around them. With parents, the situation is exactly the same - the child is trying to experience as adults will react to his behavior, what they will do if their comments will be ignored toddler. When the test of various forms of behavior child gets the desired result, he remembers this particular type of behavior as the most effective. So because of their mistakes adults are guilty of the vagaries of their child.
Caprice (fr. - Fad fad) - the desire of the child, especially primary school and pre-school age, to achieve something impossible at the moment, inaccessible, or forbidden.
Many parents today have set ourselves a difficult task: to give your baby the best, are not deprived him of anything and at the same time keeping your living comfort. But the child's natural desire to get on the first pore life is no residue sometimes develops in disregard of the limits of their desires. So you, as children get older, you become more attentive.
But sometimes parents are willing to make any sacrifice to fulfill the whim of his child, especially if the long-awaited baby. But their role is, first and foremost, is to help the crumbs to grow. Desire, in that no matter what, to please the child leads to the fact that he felt a strong shock at the first encounter with the reality that will not adjust to his whims. It will be difficult for rapprochement with children's groups, because he does not know how to share, and it has almost no friends.
Usually whims cause, they are accompanied by stamping, screaming, crying, scattering caught near objects.
Sensitive, clever love for children requires the ability to construct reasonable limits to their desires. We must learn to tell them "no." If you will be firm, kid 3-4 years will appreciate it and will not be in vain scandal.
How to cope with children's whims
Deny the kid in his desire to buy a toy only when it is in fact impossible due to valid reasons. Always try to explain his refusal crumbs.
Teach children not to require all of its parent time and excessive attention from you. Surrounded his books and toys that he could get on their own and occupy yourself.
Teach your child the ability to wait, be patient. If you are very busy, and the baby requires you to immediately do it, ask him to wait five minutes. This time increases gradually.