All what you will achieve in the time of raising a child, including his success will only happen because of you alone. Of course, during this long and difficult path will also be a lot of problems and hardships, but those tops that you submit, will make you a much stronger, more confident and give love a baby, his respect, gratitude and pride for his mother for life.
Plus a second.
Growing your child yourself, you will be able to focus only on him and myself. You do not have to be torn between her husband, his parents and relatives. Listen to their advice and often meaningless pangs. You no one will point to the flaws in the upbringing of the child and give advice on proper farming. You will not hear reproaches and stories-in-law that "here it is a real housewife."
Plus a third.
As hard as you had no one, you will always be happy that you have a child. He will become the impetus of life that will inspire you to successful actions and good behavior, give a lot of positive emotions, even in the most difficult moments, will be the meaning of your life and give happiness.
Plus a fourth.
You can put in your house of friends and girlfriends when you want it, and not at the time when it will be your husband agrees. Girl's tea party gatherings and no one will interrupt the phrase "Well, for a long time you still there? ". And your friends will surely find a common language with the child.
Plus a fifth.
You'll get a great contact with the child, will be able to teach him your passion, because no one would dispute, and called stupid. He can be your soul mate and friend, and both of you will be interested in each other. Only this is also very important to respect and his personal interests and hobbies, separating them as much as possible.