How to avoid conflict with your friends

How to avoid conflict with your friends
 Sometimes too emotional people may suddenly notice that their environment is rapidly decreasing. The reason for this can be increased conflict. Often from seemingly minor quarrels mature long hostility and resentment. This can be avoided if you try to follow the simple rules.
 When you begin to notice that too impulsively react to minor comments or engage in polemics, not for a moment thinking, should make it a rule simple way. Before expressing an opinion or comment, you need to take a deep breath and relax as you exhale, and only then start talking.

If it becomes clear that your relationship is brewing conflict situation, you can try to get away from it in the literal sense of the word. In this case, may be a reference to the lack of time, urgent business, incompetence or lack of information. "Let's talk about it later" - this magic phrase is able to quench stirred the emotions, to give time for reflection and preparation for the difficult conversation.

When avoid conflict conversation fails, you can stand on the position agrees. This does not mean that in the future you will adhere to this point of view. The main thing - to extinguish the conflict in the bud, do not let him develop into a storm that destroys relationships.

If your friend and you can easily talk and listen to each other, it is possible to avoid a conflict came to a compromise. It is necessary to discuss the problem, consider it from different angles and then stop on such a variant that will satisfy both of you.

Discussing any questions, try not to go on the topic, as this may cause your buddies negative emotions. Try to express your opinion the most understandable way, veiled thought not everyone can understand correctly.

Participating in the debate, you should always evaluate the possible consequences of the conflict. Stand if your attempts to prove something of your friendship? Perhaps the best option would be to keep silent and turn the conflict that occurred in jest.

If it turns out the way that you were wrong, you need to find the strength to admit defeat and continue to maintain friendly relations. Victory or defeat in some dispute should not be an occasion to demonstrate their superiority or humiliation.

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