Sometimes a girl develops an erroneous impression that her man does not want their own children just because of the fact that he did not share her enthusiasm for the neighborhood kids. In fact, in this case, the problem lies in communicating pairs. Spouse simply can not understand the clear hint of his companion.
Men - rational beings, while beautiful ladies rely more on intuition. Therefore, you need to talk to them openly, clearly identify their needs and desires. And as a result of the conversation the woman identifies with his partner not wanting to have a baby, you need to think and choose the right tactics behavior.
When you understand that man does not want to replenish the family does not need scandals, tantrums and put ultimatums. In this case, a man may refuse to make contact, and even for a little while away from home. Better gently, without pressing on it, try to find out the reasons for his behavior.
If a man does not want to have children at this particular point in time, but it does have the potential desire, so no need to worry. Husband in this case clearly express the reasons, such as lack of own housing or financial difficulties. Then the family should determine what is important for the baby, and what purchases can be postponed.
It is important to bring to the consciousness of her husband, that over the years you are not getting any younger, and one day I just might miss the opportunity to have their own child. At the same financial difficulties does not go away, they are always, and to his own apartment, you can save money and 10 and 20 years. The family council, together with the beloved determine what goals you need to achieve before the birth of crumbs, and after their achievement can be to think about pregnancy.
If the husband is constantly coming up with new excuses his wife a thought that he was just constantly delayed childbearing. But in fact, it may just be afraid of changes in life, a new liability, loss of freedom. It is necessary to give a man an opportunity to form their readiness for fatherhood.
A woman can help your loved one, creating a positive lifestyle with crumbs. It is important to pay attention to its positive qualities that will help him become a good father. You can listen to the advice of friends and the opinions of experts - to the last man very carefully listened to.
If a man originally wanted to have a baby, and then changed his mind, perhaps the problem is discord between husband and wife. In this case, the woman is often intuitively feels that having a baby will help to strengthen the marriage. But hurry, in this case it is not necessary, the kid can not be the way to solve problems, he did not hold a man who has decided to leave, but the woman is likely to remain one with crumbs on his hands.
If a man was initially against children, and the woman knew about it, the more she has no right to reproach him. Need to know the reasons why the husband refuses to have children. It may be, for example, hereditary diseases or bad previous experience of fatherhood.
In this case, you need to understand his wife wife, to compromise and to explain to him that the pair of them requires a new level of relationship that just gives birth to a baby. For some time is necessary to postpone the talk about a possible pregnancy, visit the experts (including genetics and psychology).
In any case, if the husband does not want to have children, that is no reason to hold family quarrels, and, of course, in no case should not put a spouse before the fact. It is important to understand her man to calm him down and be patient. When pregnancy is mutual desire, the joy of birth and bring more crumbs.