There is a category of women, which men usually pass by without giving them enough attention. They do not cause violent sexual desire with them do not want to learn, seeing senselessness of all upcoming romantic courtship - this woman blue stockings.
How did this term?
Since ancient times, the blue color symbolizes chastity and purity, unity of spiritual and intellectual. Now bluestocking called woman, fully immersed in work voluntarily renouncing his personal life and for the sake of the glory of the work, as well as not having the slightest hint of femininity and sexuality.
What is the Blue Stocking?
Unlike bitches, it is closed and even a little irritable. She was not interested in women's gadgets, fashion brands and cosmetics. She never flirting and flirting, just because she does not have time for this. Her life is a love and passion - work or science. This woman is faceless. Met her on the street again, you never know it in passing women. She does not try to like men, not leading and manipulates them, if it does not apply. At work the same - it is the iron lady, the dictator, demanding obedience from everyone.
Where you can meet bluestocking?
This lady attends exhibitions, art galleries, scientific conferences. You'll never see her dancing at the club and drinking tequila at the bar. She does not go to corporate parties and do not gossip in the boudoir. She has always focused on the job and never hurries home after a busy day.
Psychology of women bluestocking: all the problems from childhood
Usually these girls a little pampered as a child and literally kept in a black body. These are the girls who go to 5 circles on the day, which are in school for one and five, except for lessons, music, singing, sewing, ballroom dancing, do not see anything. While the other girls, growing up, begin to use makeup, dye their hair, wear heels, bluestocking still engaged in science and self-development without paying due attention to their appearance. Hence - the critical attitude to their appearance, which is expressed in low self-esteem.
But bluestocking - this is not a diagnosis. This is a specific form of protection is not knowing the world, girls from lustful, violent, selfish men, acting in their selfish sexual and sometimes financial interests. As a rule, these women are quite successful and financially secure, so on their horizon predictably may appear marriage swindler or a gigolo.
If she meets in her life decent, caring and congenial men, it is quite possible that she shone all its hidden from prying eyes faces will become a loving wife and wonderful mother.