As for the prelude to sex, we are talking about kissing, you should remember one important thing - the kiss should not be greedy, pushy, rude. Be romantic, slow gentle French kiss is fine.
Also, do not miss roughly partners of each other for all their private parts with a kiss. Enough to hold each other slightly, slowly stroking her back.
In the sex is not worth hurry. To behave with a partner or a partner is so, if you're in the restaurant. Imagine that you are slowly carve delicious meals, enjoying every moment. Around playing beautiful music (for beginners, and experienced, but the romantic lovers, more suitable quiet classical music than hard rock) in the air flavors. Think only of the partner, forget all foreign affairs, they are at this point, you will only get in the way. The more you remember the last game in the Champions League and that will wash the dishes, the less likely to get real pleasure from sex.
If you're going to think about during sex partners and listen attentively to his or her desires, it is likely he will be able to help achieve (easier) or her (which is difficult, but honorable) orgasm. Men should remember that sex with his orgasm should not end, and should help his partner.
After the end of sex should not immediately disperse on unfinished business. Even if it's not night fell, still lie down next to the partner. Can make a relaxing massage or simply pet lover on the back or head.
If the court of the day, it is too long, you can lie in bed, just in case you want to repeat everything again. However, as we said above, that it is a novice partner, hardly worth the risk again. Perhaps not work so well, and the impression of sex greased. So it is better to give 100% in the first act.