Talk to your man, and frankly, very frankly. Try to understand why he does not want it. If it is not certain material prosperity of your future family, explain that material prosperity - the phenomenon of unstable, it may be (or can not be) and with the child. Naturally, with a new family member will be added and material losses, but they justify themselves! If a man doubts that you will be worthy of future baby's mother, do not take offense to it, and try to think, you gave him a reason to think so? Showed you lightheadedness, whether frivolous? If yes, then try to change for the better, show your man that you are responsible, kind, worthy of respect and ready for a family with kids and, coming together with the problems and concerns, woman.
Visit family psychologist. Do not assume that a visit to a psychologist - the action is useless. I would like to note that most of the problems of this kind carry a purely psychological in nature, you will be able to help a qualified person with special education and knowledge of the matter.
Take the view of men. Find in this its positive aspects and to live without children. In the world every year becomes more and more of these families who do not wish to have a continuation of the species, and is considered more appropriate to live life "for himself", without any worries, troubles and hassles that can bring the baby.
Rasstantes with a man. If you are constantly discussing the problem and can not come to a compromise, if your house is no more peace and tranquility of the constant scandals and quarrels about it, think about whether you want to continue to fight? Is it worth it to fight for relationships and family with this man? The main thing is do not rush into this matter, if the "cons" far outweigh the "pros", then it is worth considering.