Father during your pregnancy

Father during your pregnancy
 Pregnancy - the beginning of a long journey of birth and becoming a new person. We women, protect, store, take care of the most expensive treasure in the world, securely hide it in my tummy. Someone pregnancy is easy, and someone gets in the way of "terrible beast" morning sickness, swelling, large weight gain, poor health, a list of restrictions and mood swings. And what goes fathers?

Men experience feelings of joy and delight no less than women to learn that will soon become fathers. But we all know that the emotional level is much lower than our men, and if we do after this news, digest it, we begin to think quickly about how we can be, and in general, men just excited. That's what we have, perhaps, begins to irritate, first a little bit, and then more and more. As a result - we have a bad mood, and her husband can not find the cause, and is guilty, because pregnant women can not be upset. And if we are not to blame for this? This is what we in the first month of pregnancy buy books about healthy nutrition and child feeding on the rules, we run to the drugstore for a cream for stretch marks, we feel nervous in queues antenatal. This is what we all know about our pregnancy and who will tell about her father? Therefore, to the future Pope did not hit, trapped, and ran away from home when the next attack, "what I want, I do not know what I know, do not want to" sit on his lap and hug the shoulder gently and softly-softly tell us about what to expect.
The first thing you need to know Dad, it's about your health. I have to say that you can now, and what not. That heavy bags are canceled, gym - after consultation with the doctor, exhausting trip - not for you, and the power is extremely healthy.
Second, your body will begin to change, not immediately, gradually, and stupid little smiles: "You're so tidy! "You do not have to. Warn you the most difficult to realize that the waist disappears, hips are increasing, and pedicures to make the most difficult, and do not want to beloved focus on a round belly. Not a big belly paints a woman during pregnancy, and the realization that she is a child.
Third, it is a question about the intimate life of the spouses. Now all controls woman and Dad should know about it. If you are uncomfortable, uncomfortable, scared, do what you think is necessary. You are the captain on board, and her husband - your assistant. Hint about it in advance to have fun and not worry.
Fourth, most probably terrible for men - splashes of our moods. Well, it does not give us, we are not to blame! This all changes in the body, the change in hormonal levels, and how could it be otherwise, if you have two people, two souls connected by the umbilical cord. Your nerves must be cared for, you are connected with your baby. If you do well, and the crumbs are well within you, and vice versa. If you would like pineapples at three o'clock in the morning, then that's fine, and do not twist at the temple. We are who we are mothers, we are waiting in front of a high barrier - childbirth. Remind your dad about it, when suddenly he starts to get nervous. In the end, we are afraid, afraid of it, no book, no review does not pass the consistency of feelings and sensations that are inherent in childbirth. We are weak and the fair sex, and commits an act timeless men, it's not just so ordered nature. We are hardier, we hatched a child and dad should respect and thank us for such a miracle - as the birth of a son or daughter of a small.
Talk with her husband, tell, share with him, that he was ready and was the best daddy!

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