The girl is bound to be beautiful and well-groomed. Bitten nails, hair pulled into a ponytail, tracksuit - even if you are quoting from memory Petrarch, conversation with you will not bring as many positive emotions, how could, if you had a light dress and neat makeup.
And let someone else believes that once a woman's role - to keep the home, then the mind and a good education are not needed at all. Knowledge and ability to think are appreciated everywhere and always. Intelligent man can be seen everywhere - and in discussions about the meaning of life, and in the ordinary domestic dispute. Therefore dedicate self-development time.
But how to combine these qualities? So just how do you find time to eat, sleep, entertainment and work. For a time you spend on beauty treatments and at home, and some - read books. It is not necessary to justify himself too much time or heavy loads. If you really want to, you can always be beautiful and intelligent.
Where to start? With a plan of action. As your understanding looks beautiful girl? How to detect smart? Create an image in the mind-ideal. To him and you should aim for.
The plan can be as rough and very specific. Change her hairstyle, update your wardrobe, learn to paint beautiful eyes. Read three books for the month, visit the exhibition of paintings and see two films from the golden fund of world cinema.
With these tasks you can do it, and for a month, and soon discover the changes. Get new rules and new habits. For example, always style your hair or make a stylish haircut and every day read at least half an hour. After a couple of weeks you will find that in life there are changes.