In anger, before expressing something the other person's face, stop. Think of a second before saying something extra. Clearly, this is very difficult. If you find yourself incensed, that are ready vykrichat all that boiling. But, most likely, you then regret to say. So find the strength to stop the flow of screaming. Step aside. Turn your attention to something else. Just drink water or go away to another room. Clean the house of your seat or just juggle the books. During this break a little thought will come to order, and you make sense of their actions.
It is also necessary to be able to remain silent and in other situations. Do not get too frank in front of strangers, to talk to the first comer of his family quarrels. Do not trust even close friends their secrets. Innermost leave just for yourself. It is not necessary to know all about your happiness with your loved ones. It's all intimate moments, and they are just for the two of you. Showing off in front of the other, as if you expose your feelings show. Some women may envy, they want to check whether your favorite so good.
It is particularly important to be able to hold his tongue on some critical jobs. Sometimes, taking on a new employee, some firms even take a subscription to disclose business secrets. This may be related to financial activities or new technologies of production, or even cooking secrets individual meals in restaurants. Therefore, leaving the workplace, do not hang out with her friends about what's new happened in your company. Usually, such talk is gradually deepened, and you will not notice how blabbed that outsiders should not know.
Should not hack the truth from the shoulder in some respects to loved ones. Perhaps the person does not want to know the truth, trying to hide from it. So before you report to a friend about the adventures of her husband, look carefully and probe the soil to find out, and if she wants to hear the truth?