How to find a common language with friends

 Communicating with friends, try to understand them and keep the conversation going. It so happens that you have with your girlfriends are very different areas of interest: they love shopping and traveling, and you prefer the theater, like poetry, happy to spend the weekend at their summer cottage. Remember, while you reject the drag their girlfriends, you will be quite difficult to count on their understanding. Not necessarily love the same as they are. The main thing - to seek the views of friends, be responsive to share their grief and joy. This behavior will not leave them indifferent, and they also will closely relate to you.

Try to find common interests. For example, invite your friend to the show recently kupivshuyu new dress. Surely she wants to show off a new outfit in the theater. Instead of shopping at expensive stores, ask her friend to keep you company at the exhibition and sale of flowers. Do not short on confidence and be more frank with friends. By doing so, you will be able to draw their attention to other areas of life and hobbies. Maybe you want to go and the most travel in their company.

Learn to understand their needs and feelings. Often do not understand them, a man or not to accept anything. And then regretted his hasty decision. Calmly accept waivers friends, because you do not always have time to help someone. If a girlfriend or boyfriend can not fulfill your request, this is not an indication of their relationship to you.

Naladte feedback from friends. Try to understand and properly convey their wishes to the interlocutor. If a friend or girlfriend something you have touched, quite frankly about their feelings, not hoping that they guess. Immediately clarify the situation, you can avoid the accumulation of mutual insults and innuendo. At the same time, remember that help, support and concessions should be based on a mutual basis.