Before deciding on joint childbirth, weigh the "pros" and "cons". In this issue must take into account the mood of the future pope, his upbringing and mental stability, after giving birth will have to focus on the process and their own feelings, and not to worry even for her man. If the father of the child, for whatever reason do not want to participate in labor, he does not care, or is it an excuse for bravado in front of friends - take it with you is not worth it. Pressure from spouses and relatives can lead to the fact that instead of support in the delivery room you will get cranky and uncomprehending why he was here, man.
If your man is realized for delivery to you, and you do not mind its presence in such a crucial moment, to prepare for childbirth is better to go together. So the husband can give you a really great help. The participation of men at birth can take place in one of the following:
1. Man fights the entire period is a woman in labor, but at the time of attempts goes into another room, from which his name as soon as the baby is born;
2. The spouse all the time of delivery is in another room, from which he also summoned when the baby will be born already;
3. My husband is involved in the entire process - from fights to attempts, and he cut the umbilical cord.
In addition to the moral support that, of course, is important, a man and a woman can have a quite effective assistance. It can take on communication with doctors, midwives, nurses. When the battle is still weak, the husband can help a woman "nahazhivat" fight to maintain the correct breathing rhythm, note the time between contractions.
When the contractions intensify, a man may, for pain relief, do maternity massage waist or abdomen. During any attempts spouse may keep his wife's hand, giving her a drink or wipe the face, helps to relax between the vain attempts. Sometimes the voice of the beloved becomes the only one who hears and correctly perceives a woman in labor.
Of course, if the birth complex or a woman to be a cesarean section, the presence of her husband would be undesirable or even unacceptable. Still, this should not prevent a man keep his woman on the stage of pregnancy and preparation for childbirth and take the newly born child in his arms.