Husband-tyrant lowers self-esteem of his wife, in all its controls, so life with her husband becomes unbearable. He controls every step, every phone call, jealous friends using violence. Such men are considered weak, as a real strong man will not use aggression and physical strength for a woman to understand the specific situation. After all, these men, it is easier to show aggression against wives than to just sit down and calmly talk to her.
Husband-tyrant is always trying to determine where his wife is that she does talk to anyone at this time. He can call every 5-10 minutes and constantly monitor your spouse. Friends is getting smaller, because no one wants to have such a heavy-handed friend, and good friends to give unpleasant inconvenience friend, provoking an argument every time.
Most women can not tolerate such an attitude and go. But there are those who suffer such intolerable life for years, fearing that - to change something in your life, the new changes they fear. This is due to the fact that women after violence reduced self-esteem, she gets used to the constant control and can not take a step without her husband - a tyrant. Further, it will be very hard to get used to all the burdens of life, so it is important to learn to love yourself, change attitudes, to become someone - in this life. Do women - victims often do not have any education, work their whole life - a husband.
If the woman noticed that her husband starts to show aggression toward her, raises his hand, you need to see a psychologist. The specialist will help solve the problem, try to find out what creates this aggression.
In most cases, the tyrant himself suffers from its actions. Many men are tyrants, imitating their parents. The man - a tyrant unsure of himself and his abilities, and he needs professional help. Not the fact that he will be tormented only one woman, because not everyone will suffer a life.
If the family is shown aggression against his wife, it is necessary to consult a specialist, who will help to understand the situation. Any psychologist will confirm that in the relations husband - a tyrant, his wife - and blame the victim's wife, as allowed aggressive attitude to his side. She let the situation develop further until that happened - something terrible. Therefore, it is necessary to control their emotions, and pay attention to the behavior of the partner, in the beginning of the relationship, to decide whether there is enough strength and patience to live with him all his life, or should better not to build relationships. After all, there will be more children, and not the fact that his father would not be aggression toward children.
Family - a very important step, you need to take seriously the relationships within the family. It is important not to forget that a woman is a man, like a man, and has a right to a dignified and happy life.