Problems after childbirth can be divided into two types - physical and psychological.
Physical problems associated with the condition of the uterus and vagina after childbirth. Doctors impose such restrictions: not to have sex for 4-6 weeks after birth. And it does not depend on natural childbirth or were delivered by Caesarean section, and is associated with the risk of introduction of a bacterial infection. Usually postnatal discharge end just for 4-6 weeks, and then you can begin to gradually establish sex life.
But here you can have a different problem physiological nature. The fact that the change in the hormonal balance, and tension effects cause the sheath, the first time that the amount is insufficient vaginal lubrication in order to avoid discomfort during contact. This problem will help to cope lubricants, a selection of which is presented in pharmacies and sex shops.
More difficult if there are pain associated with the presence of seams on the vagina after an episiotomy or tearing. In this case, we must be very careful to treat the onset of sexual intercourse. Do not hesitate to tell partner that you are in pain, or ask somehow change the pose. He will treat this with understanding. Gradually, the pain will go away, but do not count on immediate results.
The second type of postpartum problems much more varied and more difficult to resolve. The reasons for them, there are many, and usually these concerns are unfounded.
Body after childbirth varies greatly, waist not immediately restored, also changes the shape of the breast. All this leads to the formation of an inferiority complex in many women. They fear that their husbands did not experience such a craving for them, as before delivery. In fact, for a man who loves his woman will always be the most beautiful and seductive.
Also important aspect influencing the sex, are changes in the lifestyle of a young mother. The first time in his new role a woman spends a lot of effort in time and attempts to cope with the baby, which is experiencing considerable stress, and still keep the house spotlessly clean and cook three-course meal. This situation leads to the fact that the only desire of women by the end of the day is a dream. Avoid this will help to attract men to some domestic affairs. Certainly, there are little things that newly made father will be easy to accomplish.
The problem may be in the fear that the child will wake up at the most inopportune moment, especially in the case of sex you choose another room. The need to constantly listen without crying baby Do distracts from the process and prevents relax. To avoid this, please read the rhythms of sleep your baby. Rate at which time after placing on the night's sleep, you can count on the fact that he will be sleeping peacefully. You can also get a baby monitor that will help you control the dream child in another room.
We should talk about contraception after childbirth. While many argue that breastfeeding has contraceptive properties, the risk of pregnancy has at any stage after birth, so it is necessary to protect themselves. You can discuss with your doctor the issue of hormonal contraception, there are those that can be used during breastfeeding. The optimal way - barrier contraception.